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		<title>By: Halfawake</title>
		<link>http://www.steverrobbins.com/blog/2009/10/what-causes-you-stress/#comment-4531</link>
		<dc:creator>Halfawake</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Oct 2009 18:26:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lack of measurable progress.</description>
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		<title>By: J T</title>
		<link>http://www.steverrobbins.com/blog/2009/10/what-causes-you-stress/#comment-4526</link>
		<dc:creator>J T</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 16:28:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There&#039;s an acronym I came across that describes it really well for me.

The biggest cause of stress in my (and most people&#039;s) life is NUTs - Nagging Unfinished Tasks.

That&#039;s why we always want to get organised -- not to have everything neat and orderly and easy to find, but rather just to know everything is where it should be and we&#039;ve seen it and nothing has escaped our attention coz otherwise it&#039;ll blow up in our face. And really we have this nagging feeling that we missed out on something, and that something might be THE thing that blows up.

If something blows up, the nagging voices are proved right, making them stronger and more insistent.

And that&#039;s the appeal of various organising methodologies including the current GTD movement. Getting rid of the nagging voices.

So want to be driven completely nuts and feel stressed out -- NUTs are your best bet!

- JT</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s an acronym I came across that describes it really well for me.</p>
<p>The biggest cause of stress in my (and most people&#8217;s) life is NUTs &#8211; Nagging Unfinished Tasks.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s why we always want to get organised &#8212; not to have everything neat and orderly and easy to find, but rather just to know everything is where it should be and we&#8217;ve seen it and nothing has escaped our attention coz otherwise it&#8217;ll blow up in our face. And really we have this nagging feeling that we missed out on something, and that something might be THE thing that blows up.</p>
<p>If something blows up, the nagging voices are proved right, making them stronger and more insistent.</p>
<p>And that&#8217;s the appeal of various organising methodologies including the current GTD movement. Getting rid of the nagging voices.</p>
<p>So want to be driven completely nuts and feel stressed out &#8212; NUTs are your best bet!</p>
<p>- JT</p>
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		<title>By: DS</title>
		<link>http://www.steverrobbins.com/blog/2009/10/what-causes-you-stress/#comment-4521</link>
		<dc:creator>DS</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 04:01:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Deadlines, Stress, Sleep deprivation/Lack of sleep, Hunger, Physical and mental fatigue, headaches/pain, lack of control, when I can&#039;t focus my thoughts/mind, pressures from people, uncomfortable-ness, HEAT, bad eating (not necessarily bad food, more not eating the things I really want.), when everything is going bad and feels hopeless, when I can&#039;t do anything properly (messing things up), can&#039;t get started, light, itchy, when my hair is being difficult. I&#039;m such a stressed child...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Deadlines, Stress, Sleep deprivation/Lack of sleep, Hunger, Physical and mental fatigue, headaches/pain, lack of control, when I can&#8217;t focus my thoughts/mind, pressures from people, uncomfortable-ness, HEAT, bad eating (not necessarily bad food, more not eating the things I really want.), when everything is going bad and feels hopeless, when I can&#8217;t do anything properly (messing things up), can&#8217;t get started, light, itchy, when my hair is being difficult. I&#8217;m such a stressed child&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Craig C</title>
		<link>http://www.steverrobbins.com/blog/2009/10/what-causes-you-stress/#comment-4516</link>
		<dc:creator>Craig C</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 02:58:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Being attacked by zombies is stressful, because the stakes are high, the attacks are unpredictable and out of your control, and there are so many options for where to go, what weapons may be available, etc..

In a way, being cornered is less stressful, since the options are only fight with what you have or die.

My odd brand of stress is that, while huddled in the survival bunker, rather than accepting that this is out of my control and making the best of it with whoever is there, I&#039;d create stress for myself by feeling that I should develop time travel to go back and stop the creator of the zombie army before he began.  When, of course, I should choose to reduce my stress and join with the force behind the zombies.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being attacked by zombies is stressful, because the stakes are high, the attacks are unpredictable and out of your control, and there are so many options for where to go, what weapons may be available, etc..</p>
<p>In a way, being cornered is less stressful, since the options are only fight with what you have or die.</p>
<p>My odd brand of stress is that, while huddled in the survival bunker, rather than accepting that this is out of my control and making the best of it with whoever is there, I&#8217;d create stress for myself by feeling that I should develop time travel to go back and stop the creator of the zombie army before he began.  When, of course, I should choose to reduce my stress and join with the force behind the zombies.</p>
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		<title>By: arcticdreamer</title>
		<link>http://www.steverrobbins.com/blog/2009/10/what-causes-you-stress/#comment-4511</link>
		<dc:creator>arcticdreamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 13:41:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>being so far from friends &amp; family in crisis</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>being so far from friends &amp; family in crisis</p>
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		<title>By: peakaytea</title>
		<link>http://www.steverrobbins.com/blog/2009/10/what-causes-you-stress/#comment-4506</link>
		<dc:creator>peakaytea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 11:14:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Not being able to find things. I&#039;m not sure if it&#039;s chicken or egg, but under stress, things start to go missing and that causes more stress. Or vice versa? Agree with prior posts that lack of control is a common theme in my stress, also.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not being able to find things. I&#8217;m not sure if it&#8217;s chicken or egg, but under stress, things start to go missing and that causes more stress. Or vice versa? Agree with prior posts that lack of control is a common theme in my stress, also.</p>
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		<title>By: Scott Cunningham</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott Cunningham</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 10:26:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a business leader, on key stressor is managing my stress in front of my staff. The internal conflict of worrying about the economy, worrying about individual employee concerns, and worrying about team performance all while maintaining a positive outlook and motivational spirit can leave me with few constructive outlets.

Combine that with doing the same dance with your family and you soon feel huge performance pressure to not only resolve the issues, but to do so without airing your own fears.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a business leader, on key stressor is managing my stress in front of my staff. The internal conflict of worrying about the economy, worrying about individual employee concerns, and worrying about team performance all while maintaining a positive outlook and motivational spirit can leave me with few constructive outlets.</p>
<p>Combine that with doing the same dance with your family and you soon feel huge performance pressure to not only resolve the issues, but to do so without airing your own fears.</p>
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		<title>By: Bob Kerns</title>
		<link>http://www.steverrobbins.com/blog/2009/10/what-causes-you-stress/#comment-4496</link>
		<dc:creator>Bob Kerns</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 07:40:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When two (or usually more) parties are demanding I spend a given block of time THEIR way.

(Especially when they switch around what block of time, so I can&#039;t actually plan my time).

And: TIME THIEVES! You know -- things that steal your time. The IRS. Medical billing. Telemarketers &amp; spammers. Gratuitous demands for information.

It&#039;s not so much that these are usually stressful themselves, as they become multipliers of stress when time is short.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When two (or usually more) parties are demanding I spend a given block of time THEIR way.</p>
<p>(Especially when they switch around what block of time, so I can&#8217;t actually plan my time).</p>
<p>And: TIME THIEVES! You know &#8212; things that steal your time. The IRS. Medical billing. Telemarketers &amp; spammers. Gratuitous demands for information.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not so much that these are usually stressful themselves, as they become multipliers of stress when time is short.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 06:02:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We feel stress when we don&#039;t have the resources needed to reach our goals or complete the tasks which are asked of us...and this seems to be playing out in the responses I&#039;ve seen thus far.

For instance: I work at a call center and if a customer has a problem that I cannot resolve on that initial call, I must have my supervisor&#039;s approval to take time off the phone and do what is needed to find a solution to the problem and outreach the customer. However, due to recent downsizing through attrition, the call volume has skyrocketed, and my supervisor will no longer approve any time off the phones. This causes me considerable stress. While I would like to provide the good customer service expected by my employer and the customer, I am not given the resources needed to accomplish this effectively.

Stress is obviously not just limited to the workplace, so the same idea of not having the resources to achieve one&#039;s needs can be seen across the board: Your car keeps breaking down but you can&#039;t afford to get a new one, you need health coverage but are denied because of a preexisting condition, your kids don&#039;t know who you are because you must work round the clock to care for them, and so on.

While there is some subjectivity in determining how stressful an event is, I believe that overall, our stress levels are highest when your basic human needs (in other words, the first two levels on Maslow&#039;s hierarchy) are not met. This is where the physical effects on the body, such as hair loss, weight loss, depression and thoughts of suicide, sleep dysfunction, lowered immune system, memory loss, and high blood pressure and risk of heart attack, will begin to manifest.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We feel stress when we don&#8217;t have the resources needed to reach our goals or complete the tasks which are asked of us&#8230;and this seems to be playing out in the responses I&#8217;ve seen thus far.</p>
<p>For instance: I work at a call center and if a customer has a problem that I cannot resolve on that initial call, I must have my supervisor&#8217;s approval to take time off the phone and do what is needed to find a solution to the problem and outreach the customer. However, due to recent downsizing through attrition, the call volume has skyrocketed, and my supervisor will no longer approve any time off the phones. This causes me considerable stress. While I would like to provide the good customer service expected by my employer and the customer, I am not given the resources needed to accomplish this effectively.</p>
<p>Stress is obviously not just limited to the workplace, so the same idea of not having the resources to achieve one&#8217;s needs can be seen across the board: Your car keeps breaking down but you can&#8217;t afford to get a new one, you need health coverage but are denied because of a preexisting condition, your kids don&#8217;t know who you are because you must work round the clock to care for them, and so on.</p>
<p>While there is some subjectivity in determining how stressful an event is, I believe that overall, our stress levels are highest when your basic human needs (in other words, the first two levels on Maslow&#8217;s hierarchy) are not met. This is where the physical effects on the body, such as hair loss, weight loss, depression and thoughts of suicide, sleep dysfunction, lowered immune system, memory loss, and high blood pressure and risk of heart attack, will begin to manifest.</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel B</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachel B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 06:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Money, specifically when cash flow creates shortage. Anxiety attacks even when anticipating cash shortage.</description>
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