Dont the best relationships begin with tricks, manipulation, and deception? Youd think so, from the way some companies treat new customers. We all want strong relationships; they lead to loyalty and word of mouth. The buzz builds, and soon youre thriving. Customers stay because they love us (who can compete with love?) and Life is Good. As with any relationship, beginnings are fragile. Missteps up front can set the stage for arms-length engagement forever. Here are a few mistakes youve either made or been victim of, and what to do instead to have the best chances of keeping your customers.
Mistake #1: Collecting Customer Information Before Establishing Customer Loyalty
I needed a quote from an article in a famous business daily newspaper. The business daily was happy to let me search their last months archive, but first I had to register, giving them personal information up front. A common practice, but how stupid. Sure, they want to market to me. But didnt I come to their site on my own? They have my awareness already. The free offer isnt so free. They want contact info in return. Why would they want my info, except to send me junk mail? Oh boy, I can hardly wait!
If you promise a free offer and want to capture customer information before you deliver, make the information capture optional. Most people will be happy to share their contact information with you. After all, theyre there because they hope youll solve their problem.
Strong relationships are built on understanding each others needs and filling them so well both parties want to stay. At first contact, fill their needs first. Then youve earned the right to ask further questions and explore how to get what you want.
This is an introduction, so ask only for information needed to deliver the free offer. If youre mailing something, youll need a persons mailing address. Ask for it. But stop there. Keep questions respectful. Quizzing someone about their household income before you know them is tasteless and rude, no matter how much you like voyeurism.
If you ask personal questions before youve earned the right, people will lie. Even about phone numbers. When a stranger asks for your number and wont take no for an answer, you give them a fake one. And probably a fake name. And an address in Poughkeepsie. Spending a little time to earn trust before asking is the best way to start any relationship.
Mistake #2: Making Customers Opt-out of Loyalty Programs
Unfortunately, the quote wasnt in the one-month archive. But to search last years archives required signing up for a free two-week trial of the publication. My trial was active within a few hours. After finishing the search, my day moved on and the incident was forgotten. Two weeks later, a receipt arrived from nowhere informing me my credit card had been charged $30 for change in account status.
Try for two weeks and cancel before we start charging is a great way to generate active hostility. The free trial is nice. The burden of having to remember the trial expiration is not. If a customer intends to cancel, hoping they forget the due date and get tricked into taking your product isnt going to inspire fierce devotion and a desire to purchase more. At best, theyll feel like they screwed up. At worse, theyll blame you. Do you really want people choosing between shame and anger as how they feel about your company?
The same thing happens with opt-out marketing lists. Check here if you dont want us to share your personal purchase data with everyone from General Electric to David Letterman. Face it: people (except a few fanatical direct-mail marketers) dont want more junk mail, no matter how profitable it is for you to send it. Making them opt out demonstrates that you act only in your own interests unless a customer takes the initiative to have their needs considered.
The daily business site did an especially bad job, because the first reminder of the trial expiration was the charge receipt. Whats worse, the site gave no instructions for canceling a trial before it became real.
If youre going to offer people a trial that turns into commitment, warn them before the transition. Otherwise, people convert by fiat. If youd rather have them convert out of enthusiastic satisfaction, spend the trial period giving them value, value, value. Teach them to use your product better. Give them tips about how many problems they can solve forever with just your product and a bag of odds-and-ends they can find around the home. Then let them know the transition is coming up, and only then start charging.
Moving from dating to marriage should require ceremony in any relationship. Sure, if you shack up together for a while, youre married under common law. But make sure you check in together before it becomes real. Accidental marriage is no fun for either party.
Mistake #3: Not Planning for Separation (Loyalty isnt always forever)
Well, there was no obvious way to back out of my trial. The My Account section of the web site let me modify my account settings and include all kinds of add-ons to my subscription. There was no way to cancel, however, nor did anything in the help file mention canceling. It took a half-hour on the web site, plus calls and emails to customer service before the charge was removed.
What were they thinking? Gee, if we make it hard to cancel, someone who wants out will just knuckle-under and keep paying us forever? The marketing genius who came up with that one should be put out of their misery. Making it hard to cancel wont stop a customer from leaving; it just adds frustration. People leave for all kinds of reasons. They might come back. Dont guarantee their last memories of you are of trickery and manipulation.
And make it easy for customers to leave and return. Many relationships are paradoxically strengthened when the parties involved feel as if they have the freedom to leave.
If you want a customer very much, let them go free. If they come back, it was meant to be-treasure them forever.
If they do not, sell their name and address to your direct marketing partners, because at that point, you have nothing to lose.
Mistake #4: Making bad first impressions.
While waiting for my subscription refund, I bought new backup software. Installing it took half an hour and then it wouldnt run. Reading the fine print, it seems I was supposed to bring my system up to date before installing. In plain English: download 100 Mb of software updates from Microsoft and install them all. No way. Not until I can afford to go computerless for a week while my tech person fixes everything the updates broke. The backup software went back to the store, amidst grumbling over the lost time.
Those pesky customers. They buy your product, take it home, and expect it to work. When they find no batteries included with their new $180 MP3-player, they curse, scream, and run out to buy the $2 extra batteries. How unreasonable can they get?
When I worked at Intuit, we followed customers home and watched them struggle with our product from purchase until successful use. We quickly learned to streamline the purchase and installation until it was ran as smoothly as melted Velveeta on nachos . We identified everything a customer would need to use our product and make sure it was all included or clearly identified before purchase.
Trying and buying a product is your customers first impression of you. Orchestrate it carefully; first impressions count. Its worth doing whatever it takes to make their experience a joy. It may mean more work for you, but if it gets you a customer for life, its probably worth it. We recently bought a manual lawn mower that assembled with no tools and needed a single sheet of instructions to master. Weve already recommended it to friends. You can bet when it needs replacing well stick with the same brand.
Remember when you picked up your spouse for your first date. Were your first words, By the way, the car is out of gas. Heres the gas can. Why dont you run out and snag a gallon while I wait here with your parents? Of course not. You are smarter than that when it comes to personal relationships. Be smart in business, too. Include the $2 batteries in your $180 MP3-player.
Mistake #5: Invading personal space
I signed up years ago for a marketing newsletter with a man rumored to be one of the most famous, successful marketing consultants of all time. Imagine my delight when Ive received great offers directed to his exclusive inner circle of personally important customers. My delight was diminished just a bit by the letter having been addressed to Dear Nospam-marketing@LeadershipDecisionworks.com. Personal friends? Exclusive inner circle? I think not.
Just dont do it. Computers may provide mass customization, but your customers know that. They own laser printers, too. Fake friendliness wont impress them. If your letters arent hand-signed by someone whose name they know, they wont believe for a moment that theyre any more special than anyone else. They just believe you have a good mail merge program.
If you waste your Dear close friend on people you barely know, you do a double disservice. First, you make it hard to make your true close friends feel special. How do you start the letter, Dear close friend-no, I mean it this time, you really are a close friend? I dont think so. You also deliver the reek of insincere carnival con-man to your customers. They know they arent your close friend. Dont insult them by presuming you can play off a relationship that doesnt exist. If this is a new customer, dont be afraid to admit it. After all, theyre under no illusions that youve been friends for life. Just say Dear new customer, heres a chance to meet your needs for marketing advice! A little refreshing honesty can work wonders.
Honesty is the foundation for great relationships. Even if you can get away with pretending closeness where none exists, think twice. If the truth comes out, it could be worse than playing it slow to begin with. Just ask any pair of identical twins who pulled the dating switch-a-roo back in high school. It might have been fun for an evening, but once the truth came out, they found themselves suddenly single.
Business leadership is first and foremost about forging relationships. Youll be most successful when you build those relationships to last. Customer relationships are only part of the story. You also have relationships with employees, vendors, and investors. The same principles apply everywhere: give good first impressions, answer their needs before pushing your own, respect their personal space, and make it easy for them to pull back to their own comfort level. It takes a bit longer than just charging ahead, but anticipation is, they say, the spice of life!