Stever reflects on personal and professional struggles amidst global chaos, discussing a past three-year experiment where they embraced curiosity over conventional success. They’ve achieved notable accomplishments and are reviving this experiment, inviting others to join. Upcoming topics include communication skills, AI integration, health tips, and productivity strategies.
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Quit Facebook & Change Your Life (for the better?)
It’s holiday time! My gift today is the story of a recent decision. You may want to try it. It's made life a bit more effortful, but it's produced real results. It has paid off in both expected and unexpected ways. Whoa! I quit Facebook. I quit Facebook. Yeah, it’s...
How to overcome fears and microfears that sabotage you, part 3
As we saw in part 1, and part 2, we often we get stalled because we have "microfears." These steer us away from the Important Things we want. It's our thinking that does it. We imagine what might go wrong, feel a bit of fear, and then suddenly notice we have a...
The microfears that derail you are imaginary. Literally! part 2
When things get stalled, as we saw in the article that answered the question What is a Microfear?, fear is often why. Not big fears; small ones. We're afraid of failing at something we want to learn. We're afraid of starting an ambitious project that might...
Stalled? Procrastinating? Abandoned dreams? It could be microfears. Part 1
There's a lot that doesn't get done, despite our best laid plans. There's that novel we've dreamed about writing. The weekly billing, which always seems to be late. The networking and prospecting we need to keep our business running. Early in my career, I learned...
Barking up the Wrong Tree, the Science of Success with Eric Barker
Eric Barker shares his non-intuitive, scientifically-backed insights on what does and doesn't lead to success.
Social media and the deliberate life: is divorce in the cards?
There are two ways to live your life: you can drive it, or be driven. Today, I’m not talking about driving your life in a grand, spiritual sense, but in a micro-sense. You can never replace time. Once it’s gone, it’s gone. You can never get it back....
Mistakes Matter, So Make More of Them
I’ve been doing a series of coaching calls with a wide range of successful people, to learn what’s holding them back in life. One of the most common fears: the fear of making mistakes. And it’s no wonder... It’s election time. And political discussions tell us that...
Ten Cultural Career Lies
I believed these lies for most of my life. Recently, the conventional wisdom started seeming suspect. I called several mid-career classmates and asked about their successes and failures. Upon close examination, much of what I had believed to be true about careers did not seem to hold.
Overcoming Email Overload
This article, originally printed in Harvard Business School’s Working Knowledge gives several different techniques for helping get email under control. The article was one of the most-read articles at HBS, has been translated into more than 7 languages, and reprinted in Entrepreneur.com, and several magazines.